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Why Do I Still Feel Angry After I’ve Forgiven Someone?

October 9, 2026 by Amy Nelson

You decided to forgive, but then the anger came right back. Does that mean you didn’t really forgive? Not necessarily. Forgiveness can be a genuine decision even while your emotions are still catching up.

What Forgiveness Is…And What It Isn’t

October 2, 2026October 2, 2026 by Amy Nelson

Hand releasing small stones over the water, illustrating forgiveness and letting go.

Forgiveness doesn’t mean what happened was okay. It doesn’t automatically restore trust or require reconciliation. Here’s what forgiveness actually means—and why it can bring freedom even when nothing else changes.

How to Get Better at Change Without Becoming Someone Who Loves It

September 25, 2026 by Amy Nelson

People seated in church with empty chairs in the foreground, illustrating adapting to change when life moves you from the familiar.

You don’t have to love change to get better at living through it. Here’s how to recognize when a season has changed, adjust what no longer fits and live faithfully in the life you have now.

Why Does Different Feel Wrong Sometimes?

September 18, 2026 by Amy Nelson

Church seating illustrating resistance to change and attachment to familiar routines.

Sometimes our resistance to change shows up in surprisingly ordinary places—a different routine, a new process, or even someone sitting in “our” seat. Here’s how to recognize when familiar has started to feel like the only right way.

Why Is Change So Hard? Even When It’s Change You Wanted

September 11, 2026 by Amy Nelson

Moving boxes in a bright new home, representing the adjustment that comes with change.

Sometimes the hardest part of change isn’t leaving something bad behind. Even changes we want can unsettle us when they replace the familiar with the unknown.

What If Getting What You Want Isn’t the Only Way to Win?

September 4, 2026 by Amy Nelson

We pray for God to change the situation, the person or the outcome. But what happens when He doesn’t? Maybe getting what we want isn’t the only way to win.

What Trying to Control Everything Is Really Costing You

August 28, 2026 by Amy Nelson

Trying to control everything may feel responsible, wise or even loving. But what is it costing you? Here are six ways control can take more than we realize—and what we gain when we learn to let go.

7 Signs You’re Carrying Responsibility God Never Asked You to Carry

August 21, 2026 by Amy Nelson

Woman working alone at a desk in a bright home office

Sometimes the heaviest things we carry aren’t actually ours. I have a tendency to take responsibility for things. Sometimes that’s a good quality. If something needs to be organized, handled, planned, or figured out, I’m generally pretty comfortable jumping in and getting it done. But I’ve also learned that there’s a downside to being the … Read more

Are You Trusting God…or Just Trying to Control Everything?

August 14, 2026 by Amy Nelson

There’s a difference between taking responsible action and trying to make sure everything turns out right. Have you ever found yourself wondering how many times you should say something before you need to just…stop saying it? Maybe you see a problem that needs to be addressed, a decision someone you love is making that concerns … Read more

Why Do So Many Quiet Times Start with Good Intentions…but Never Seem to Last?

August 7, 2026 by Amy Nelson

A person walking on a path, representing the journey of building a consistent relationship with God.

If you’ve read the first two articles in this series, you know my quiet time hasn’t always looked the way it does today. We talked about how I stopped treating it like another task to accomplish and started seeing it as time with Someone I wanted to know better. Then we talked about why my … Read more